It's a delicate process, and you probably resent every minute of it. We don't enjoy being molded. We'd rather avoid pain. And it may feel unfair that God uses pressure and heat to call us closer to him. The pressures of a world in need to prompt our response, the heat of our passions to ignite a love for him and his purpose.
1 Corinthians 10:12-13
Pressure and heat aren't your enemies. You needn't fear them. The pressure will never be too great, the heat never overwhelming.
Because you're not along in the pressure cooker. The Holy Spirit walks with you.